HSP: dealing with your highly sensitive child
A lot is already known about high sensitivity, such as how to recognize it and what its negative and positive sides are. Today we focus more on HSP: dealing with your highly sensitive child.
A highly sensitive person (hsp) in short
A highly sensitive person is often literally with all his senses what more sensitive than most others around him. And it depends on which sense suits you best and which you have to use the most, how your high sensitivity expresses itself. This can even express itself in gifts. Did you previously have a home situation in which you were not allowed to feel much? There's a good chance that in addition to your HSP, you also have your... claircognizance have developed.
There are many ways for highly sensitive people to deal with your high sensitivity: grounding, shielding, learning to understand stimuli, developing gifts, etc.. But how can you handle your sensitive child/hsp: well?
Children with HSP: dealing with playfulness
Many adult highly sensitive people use certain exercises to: stimuli what better to regulate† Why they use these exercises is to ask their subconscious not to let the stimuli take over so much. something about you Subconscious questions are often allowed visualization to happen† A visualization is allowed literally, powerfully and clearly presented to the subconscious, otherwise there will be holes in the visualization and understands the subconscious no longer† And then the exercise doesn't work properly. However, a child here is not yet developed enough to figure this out on his own. Don't worry, the guides of the child and the child's subconscious self more than take this into account. A small, sweet and playful visualization satisfies!
For example, what is very nice is a tent visualize at night. This tent protects against whatever you want, so name it well. For example, you can ask your child's subconscious if the tent wants to help with a good night's sleep and counteract the superfluous stimuli for the next day. It can be that easy!
Be understanding and honest with your hsp child
A child already feels a lot anyway. Especially because children simply perceive more in their childhood than adults, such as perceiving ghosts† And highly sensitive children feel even more. And it all depends on the past lives of the child, the lessons that he wanted to learn and it character of the child how highly sensitive he is.
Children are also very honest. And as a highly sensitive child, this weighs extra heavily. So don't pretend you understand your child† It is very difficult to understand a fellow human being and a child who sees all kinds of things that you do not see will never believe you with this statement. You run the risk of losing confidence in you. a good phrase to replace it with is 'I can imagine.'
And there are even more misconceptions about HSPs. And deep down, a child certainly doesn't want to be treated like that. So be realistic, strict, but fair with your child every now and then. Of course you believe it when he wants to go home sick because he is upset because he doesn't have his protractor with him for the test and may even literally throw up. That can certainly be related to high sensitivity, but really be the parent. Give it right handles, instead of only understanding† Instruct him to ask for a triangle somewhere. You will see the child pick up on how serious you are about this and grow in being independence.
Believe your child
A child has a rich imagination. But a subconscious of both child and adult is also quite literal. This makes that everything is possible, if you just visualize well and believe in it. If you want the tent above to not allow anything bad in terms of energies at night, then that will happen. At a certain point when an adult age is reached, that tent no longer works so strongly. Then the subconscious easily thinks: but the tent can be unzipped, so I simply won't let the exercise work anymore. But that is a concern for later! Just keep in mind that the subconscious wants the mind of the conscious (child/adult) to which it belongs to to equal the visualization. Also delve into the fact that you child paranormal gifts can have!
Did you know that your child can also be very sensitive to second-hand items? Check it out here!