What are life lessons?

What is a life lesson?

Before you come down from 'above' to earth, you agree on which life lessons you want to learn. That is why so many coincidences sometimes happen: it is a lesson. Are you going to learn to deal with sadness? With loneliness? Poverty or wealth? Setting boundaries? What situations happen then? And what people do you meet? Old acquaintances from past lives or people you haven't met before?

It's not like you learn and complete one lesson every life. Sometimes this takes quite a few lives, but in the end you really get there. This also depends a lot on your character. Therefore, an "old soul" is not necessarily a smarter person. And a new soul not necessarily ignorant. That's why I always say: everything you finish and clean up now, you don't have to do in your next life. By clearing I also mean a bit of karma. If you behave inappropriately, karma be part of your life lesson.

Is wealth one of life's lessons? I can almost hear some loyal readers think. Yes, because what do you do with that wealth? Do you only think about yourself? Does your character change in a negative way? Of course, that is usually not the intention.

You don't always learn a life lesson as a person

That is sometimes quite difficult to imagine. But you can also learn things in life as a spirit or guide. The options are then very different. As a guide you are of course not bothered by time and space. That way you can learn what you want, and see what you want from the world. You also still have your own issues. Of course you do have a task and that is being someone's guide. Also in collaboration those are other guides. Usually this person and the guide already know each other from a past life. It is then usually easier and more trusted to be a guide. In any case, you know how that person works and how you can best approach him.

Because it is not always all familiar! For example, you may also not bond with your guide because you feel you cannot trust him. This feeling may be justified and come from a past life. Or is it fear of the things you cannot see? Yet it is the intention that you try to solve this life or at least experience it.

As I described, as a guide you do have the task to keep an eye on someone's (a person's) life path and well-being. But that is not necessary as a spirit. Then you probably keep an eye on your loved ones, but that is not an obligation. And sometimes even a lesson to let them go. And sometimes a lesson to help as a spirit form. It always comes down to listening to your intuition, or to your guide(s). It really tells you what you should do best.

Life lessons are often at odds with someone else's

A sad example is when a mother's child is stillborn. The mother (probably) has as a lesson that she learns to deal with the loss and learns to let go. The child has as a lesson or shall I also say possibility to experience stillbirth and without earthly life prior to it have the possibility to see the world. As I mentioned before, time as spirit and guide does not count. So thankfully the child is not a helpless baby wandering like a ghost. He can just assume a form.

Would you like to experience what and how your lessons in your past lives were?

Which can! By means of hypnosis, for example in online course, I bring you back into life what you most need to see. Then you can experience what you have learned in that life. That part of hypnosis is also called reincarnation therapy.