Rather not call someone by name: spiritual causes!
Have you ever considered that there are people who constantly call people by name and people who prefer not to? Or actually never? Think about it. You can see it easily, especially in groups. The 1 simply pronounces the name of someone if they want to ask something. The other prefers to wait for eye contact or for the other person to talk to him. And just doesn't pronounce names at all. That's actually a real thing. And there are really many reasons behind it. From very logical reasons to spiritual reasons.
A name is also just a crazy thing. You get it at birth and you just have to hope it suits you. You simply get a little fed up with him through life. Maybe you have a very standard name or 1 that everyone misspells. Those are events that can still be imagined. But what does it mean if someone just doesn't want to call people by name?
There are also many superstitions that believe that a / you changing name brings bad luck.
Attaching value to a name
A name actually has a lot value. Just think about it very soberly and rationally. You use it on papers. It identifies you. Identify with your family too. Without your name, people don't easily get your attention. As a child, your things were labeled with it.
Then you have even crazier lying feelings. Remember if someone mistypes your name, you are always offended. Or that people express your name with weird accents on purpose to get your attention. If someone has the same name, you are interested or upset if it is mixed up. You never want to be the one who gets a different version of the name… Or well: then it's something different for once. Also remember that you never wanted to hear your name in class because the reading went to you.
Then you have name meanings and the whole world beyond.
And wait that you like something more spiritual reasons or reasons of faith. Baptisms, names in holy books, whole astrological predictions that are made on the basis of a name.
Spiritual consequences of calling someone by name or not
But so much more happens the moment a name is said. Or is suppressed. Shall we take a look? Think about the moment you pronounce a name. What happens to it naked eye then with that one? The one whose name is mentioned is 'startled' / made alert. He almost immediately breaks his attention with what he was doing. His name has a meaning to him, like being mad at it, and that is triggered. Or he has to sigh because he has to do something for someone. You see him at all assess how and with what tone his name was said so that he can prepare for your question or comment, etc..
Uncertainty
What can it do uncertainty happen in you and in the other when you mention someone's name? Let's see.
With the other.
Possibly mentioning someone's name is very exciting for that person. He feels seen when you mention the name. Or viewed, which triggers serious fear of failure for some. With all the emotions that entails. So people can become very insecure when hearing the name. His attention is also immediately away from what he was doing.
Sometimes a name can also be used a lot in a negative context. Always seeing that bad job rating hanging under your name. Or that you were talked about for and about you as a client. If you experience unpleasant things with your name incorporated, in images or used, that is possible literally weigh on your name and every time you hear or read it, do something to you.
With you.
But it may also be difficult for you to say the other person's name. When you say someone's name, you suddenly get that person's full attention. You might find that exciting. Or do you have half your attention for reasons, so that you get something done faster. Or you prefer to say something in a large group without everyone listening to you. And then it is a bit more convenient not to call someone by name. That way you simply have more privacy.
Being seen
This one, of course, looks like uncertainty. Yet there are some differences.
With the other.
It is very difficult for some people to experience being seen. A lot can go on in a person's head. Perhaps the other person has an 'imposter syndrome' and feels that he is not doing well at all. Or does he have performance anxiety. If his name is then rarely mentioned, he simply has less of a feeling that he is being watched.
There are also people who just want to be seen and feel that they are not being seen now. They wait for someone to call their name. Sometimes the sadness is so great that they ask for attention in the wrong way. For example, by manipulating or showing many emotions. Sometimes makes their own bodies therefore make them sick as well.
With yourself.
If you call someone by name, it means that you give the signal that you see the other person. Maybe you have known or unknown reasons in yourself why you don't want that. You may not want to give them that satisfaction, and you may even be absolutely right not to.
Energetic connection by calling someone by name
Then you have important energetic factors why calling someone by name is difficult or feels crazy.
With the other and with you
Perhaps you or the other person still has a lot of conscious memories from past lives which you cannot place. Then you can also react awkwardly to your name. After all, you would also listen to many other names.
Then there is a piece to break energy cords. That's a connection you have with everyone you know and incentives travel across that. Stimuli are information about how someone is doing: where he is in pain, what he thinks, how he acts. The 1 is very (high) sensitive to stimuli. And what do you not want, right: call someone by name, because then you make an energy cord bigger! Other ways to accidentally widen energy cords are gossiping, being in a small space with someone, etc. And what happens when a connection deepens? Then you feel the negative (but don't forget the positive) incentives of others more!
The combination of the above 2 paragraphs can also ensure that you do not want to acknowledge the other person out of spite (due to events from past lives) and therefore do not want to mention the name!
Another very little crazy foray into something different is: some people wear a curse on their mouth. Then they are also careful in what they say, whether they are aware of this or not.